In the past I’ve over-extended myself emotionally, physically, financially because I believed that a “good Christian” gives EVERYTHING away.
This belief led to being a “helicopter” teacher – one who over gives, over-shares, over-teaches, over-delivers, is overwhelmed and under-paid.
Stuffing down my feelings with food and spinning in and out of passive-aggressive behavior led me down the path of obesity, bankruptcy, foreclosure and the failure of a 28 year marriage.
I know what it is like to create amazing programs, products and services, only to hear crickets. I know what it is like to work with high drama, high maintenance people who want your product, service or program yet are unwilling to pay for it.
I know what it is like to leap into confusion and overwhelm when it comes product creation, packaging, marketing, pricing and sales. I know what it is like to pay a coach, do what they suggested and still NOT achieve my desired results.
I know what it is like to set boundaries and then spin into passive-aggressive energy when they are violated. I know what is like to feel the exhaustion of leading and building my business “like a man”, when I just want to be comfortable in my own skin as a woman.
In the end, I was resisting success. Perfectionism and procrastination were my constant companions.
I’ve also been guilty of using these excuses, “I don’t have the time to do such and such”, “This is a great opportunity but the wrong timing”, “I don’t have enough money” and “My family and friends won’t necessarily support my vision”.
All of this kept me stuck until one day, I woke up and said this is not going to go on any longer. I have the power to make the change that needs to be made and by golly, I am going to make it happen.
If you have felt the pain of the disease to please, perfectionism, procrastination and co-dependency, you are in the right place, at the right time with the right woman.
If you are ready to build a business that honors the “truth of you”, take my hand. Let’s soar!